Random Qualities of Leaders part 2
Really? Even if she or he’s wrong why can’t I point out the mistake? Your question will be this after reading the statement.
Yes don’t point out. Because pointing out mistakes don’t leave a “well wisher” impression. There are many people under the sun to do this job, it may sound a little immoral to you but please be patient and let me explain all the procedure.
Pointing out the mistakes of others lead other people to find out your mistakes and then point them out to feed their inner self esteem which was tortured by you at the time when you pointed out there mistake.
Here are you pointing out a mistake of a person in front of many people.
This process will boost and will result in the other person pointing out your mistakes in front of more people.
So you see in this diagram that just to satisfy one’s self esteem one can do revenge and find out anything bad and then point it out, it may be even worst and the other person may keep it in mind and decide to do any action later.
How to correct that mistake is the topic for which I have Written all the above.
If you REALLY want to correct other person’s mistakes you need to do it another way. Let me elaborate that.
One of my friend used to smoke but I didn’t liked it (no offense to addicted smokers but it’s my opinion) so one way could be just to point out and criticize him about what he’s doing or what I did was
Composed a letter describing the effects of smoking and sent to his mail box anonymously.
Searched for any person who was adversely affected by smoking and secretly called him when my friend was with me, after we all sat down I asked about the effects and other things and it put a little bend on his thinking.